August 19th, 2008

You Aren’t Your Parents

Have people told you “You’re just like your mother?” or “You’re just like your father?” We all have parents, but the personas we’ve grown since our birth is ours alone and deserves full attention. Discovering your individuality might be the main fallout from your divorce.

What made you the individual you have become today? Was it your parents? Was it the environment? What about your school teachers, your church? This topic is debated frequently. You will more than likely see influences from each of these inside your Self. Remember this: no matter where it came from, your individuality is yours to cherish, hold and enjoy.

August 12th, 2008

Domestic Violence Divorce - Lost Mothers, Lied to Children and the Legal Abuse Syndrome

Far too often when you leave an abusive relationship, you go from the frying pan of family violence to the fire of legal domestic abuse…and don’t understand what’s going on until the damage is done. Read on to learn what you must know if you are in, or approaching, divorce court with an abuser.

“Where is your Mom?” asked a little boy to another. The little boy replied, “I don’t know.” From his point of view, she was lost. She was gone. She left him. She abandoned him. …And the conclusions go on and on, each one with more and more potential to fracture a young psyche. Eventually, it can.

June 3rd, 2008

Is Sleep Your New Sex?

The romantic side of a relationship is often trumped by a need for sleep. Parents don’t want to talk openly about this topic, but I can assure you that many are experiencing this problem.

Let’s face it?.kids are EXHAUSTING.  And the romantic side of a relationship is often trumped by a need for sleep.

Parents don’t want to talk openly about this topic, but I can assure you that many are experiencing this problem.  It’s extremely common for tired parents to opt for sleep over love making.  While you might feel guilty saying “Not tonight honey? it doesn’t change a thing.  You’re still not interested.

May 12th, 2008

Tears on Both Sides of the Ocean (part 7)

Carlo is in Japan, the family is protecting their daughter and someone is trying to prevent Carlo from seeing Eke…the continuing story…

Upon arriving in Wakayama, Eke made a bee-line to her bedroom and set her luggage in the corner and without even turning on a light, landed face down on the mattress and was immediately fast asleep. She didn’t wake up till well past noon the next day, which was to her good fortune since dad was at work and so she had time to talk to mom before he returned to get a sense for what she was about to face.


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